I hangaia mō ō hiahia ahurei: Te wāhi e tūtaki ai te huatau aukume ki te whakamarie o te matā haumaru.
I a koe e rapu ana i te putea mōhiti e tika ana māu, kua ruarua koe i waenganui i ngā kōwhiringa? Hei kaihanga e whakarato ana i ngā otinga ritenga mō ngā rau waitohu o te ao, e mārama ana mātou—ka tīmata te "hoahoa tino pai" mā te whakarongo ki te kōrero ahurei i waenganui i a koe me ō mōhiti.
Katinga Aukume: He Kawa o ia Rā i Hangaia mō te Whai Hua me te Ataahua
I kōrero tētahi kaiwhakahaere waitohu nō tētahi umanga ture o te tāone nui, he maha ngā wā me tango, me whakakapi hoki ā rātou mōhiti mō ā rātou kiritaki—ko te nuinga he hunga ngaio. "Me whai wā whakawhiti maeneene i waenga i ngā hui, engari me tumanako ka mutu te keehi me te ātaahua." Hei whakatika i tēnei, i arotauhia e mātou te tahora aukume—ka tuwhera ngāwari me te huri i te whārangi, ka kati mārie me te mea he kōrero hāmama. I kī tētahi kaiwhakamahi: I a au e haere ana ki te mahi i te ata, ka taea e au te whakatuwhera me te ringa kotahi i roto i taku pōke. Mā taua maeneene ka noho marino ahau i te rā katoa."
Mō tā mātou raupapa aukume i hangaia mō ngā waitohu momo noho papai, i tāpirihia e mātou he kare ā-roto ngawari ki te hononga. I kōrero tētahi kaiwhakaū o te waitohu: "E ai ki ā mātou kiritaki, ko ia whakatuwheratanga he rite ki te hura i tētahi whakapaipai ātaahua. Mā te 'whakapiripiri' kua oti te whakapai ake ka pai ai ngā mahi ngāwari." Koinei te ātaahua o te katinga aukume—ka hipa atu i te mahi noa hei wheako huatau i whatua ki te oranga o ia rā.
Tikanga Maukati: Te Whakatō i te Whakapono ki Ia Haerenga
I te tau kua hipa, i te mahi tahi me tētahi waitohu hākinakina o waho, i mārama tā rātou whakaritenga: "Me whai pouaka mōhiti ā mātou kaiwhakamahi e tu atu ana i te pēhanga o te peke tuara me ngā wiri maunga." I paahitia e tā mātou pūnaha pakū whakarei ake ngā whakamātautau tino nui mai i te -20°C ki te 50°C, ā, i tukuna tonutia taua "pāwhiri" koi, pono hoki.
I muri mai ka kōrero mai tētahi kaiwhai ara: "Ko taua tangi te mea i whakamanawa i ahau. Ahakoa te ngenge o taku tinana, ko te rongonga i taua 'pāwhiri' te tikanga he haumaru aku mōhiti." "Nā tētahi tono ritenga mai i tētahi waitohu mōhiti whānau i tāpiri he pā ngākau nui: "Me ngāwari ki ngā tamariki te whakamahi engari he pakari." I whakatikatikahia e mātou te kaha o te here kia "ngāwari ki ngā tamariki te whakatuwhera, engari kāore pea e tūpono te whakatuwhera." I tuhi tētahi whaea: "Inaianei ka waiho e taku tamahine iti āna mōhiti i ia rā. Ko taua 'pāwhiri' ngawari kua riro hei tangi o tana kawenga e tipu haere ana."
Ko āu kōrero te mea e akiaki ana i tā mātou auahatanga
I hangaia e mātou tētahi hoahoa ranu mō tētahi kaiwhakaahua—he aukume kei tētahi taha, he raka-pāwhiri kei tētahi taha—hei uru tere atu i te wā e tangohia ana ngā whakaahua me te haere haumaru. I whakawhanakehia hoki e mātou ngā pūnaha urupare pā mō ngā hunga tiro ngoikore, e hoatu ana he tikanga whakatuwhera/kati motuhake, he tohu pūoro ahurei.
E whakaatu mai ana ēnei kōrero tūturu: Ehara te kōwhiringa i te mea ko tētahi, ko tētahi rānei, engari ko te whakaritenga tika.
Ko tō āhua noho e whakatau ana ko tēhea te kati e tino whai tikanga ana:
Ki te mea kei te rapu koe i te whai huatanga me te wheako huatau, ka huri te katinga aukume hei toronga o ō matimati.
Mena kei te hiahia koe ki te pono tuturu i roto i ngā taiao kāore e taea te matapae, ka tukuna e te kati kati te haumarutanga kore manukanuka.
Mena he āhuatanga ahurei āu, he hiahia motuhake rānei, kua rite mātou ki te waihanga tahi i tētahi atu mea hei whai māu.
I roto i tā mātou wheketere, kei muri i ngā tikanga kati mōhiti katoa he hiahia kāore anō kia tutuki, he tikanga aroha e tatari ana kia whakahonoretia. Kōrero mai ki a mātou te āhua o te noho o ō mōhiti - ahakoa e neke ana i waenga i ngā tēpu hui me ngā wharekai, e haere tahi ana rānei me ngā haerenga puta noa i ngā maunga me ngā moana. Ka tito mātou i te "reo kati" tino tika hei hono i ō mōhiti utu nui me tētahi kaitiaki e tino mārama ana ki a ia.
Nā te mea ehara te whakaritenga pai rawa atu i tā mātou e tuku atu nei, engari ko tā mātou e tino mārama nei.
Wā tuku: Hakihea-12-2025